THE WOMAN Srishti (75), named a woman tells all about her life, what she experienced in her life. Srishti tells, Woman is such a beautiful creation of the NATURE , that plays her role in a very beautifully manner. A kind hearted, an honest, an intelligent, a beautiful, emotionally strong, dedicated towards her work, too much adaptable, an adventurous, an attentive for her child, a capable, an authentic, an aware, an accountable to her husband, an ambitious, a brave to fight for her child, a cool & calm, a charismatic into men's life, a compassionate, a humorous, a considerate for her father and in-law's life, a creative, an efficient, an effective, a faithful, a flexible, a friendly, a generous, a hard working, a good listener, a lovely, a loyal, nurturing for her child, passionate about her work, a polite, a productive, a reliable, responsible for her family, supportive to her husband. ( nothing is hyperbolic for a woman in the upper paragraph. Literally,...
THE WOMAN
Srishti (75), named a woman tells all about her life, what she experienced in her life.
Srishti tells,
Woman is such a beautiful creation of the NATURE, that plays her role in a very beautifully manner.
A kind hearted, an honest, an intelligent, a beautiful, emotionally strong, dedicated towards her work, too much adaptable, an adventurous, an attentive for her child, a capable, an authentic, an aware, an accountable to her husband, an ambitious, a brave to fight for her child, a cool & calm, a charismatic into men's life, a compassionate, a humorous, a considerate for her father and in-law's life, a creative, an efficient, an effective, a faithful, a flexible, a friendly, a generous, a hard working, a good listener, a lovely, a loyal, nurturing for her child, passionate about her work, a polite, a productive, a reliable, responsible for her family, supportive to her husband.
( nothing is hyperbolic for a woman in the upper paragraph.
Literally, the woman is admirable. )
Role of a woman into this world
Literally, Aurat is too much supportable for this world, she is too much adaptable to change her life's motive, before the marry for her family and after the marry for in-laws family. She plays her role in different-different way in this world.
In fact, she doesn't know what could be her next life, she never expects to this world that she will have to do such. We have made some rules for her, that is realistically not fair.
Woman as a mother
After wedding, she suffers very tough life in her in-laws family.
After it, she has a stress about her pregnancy, mostly in India. She became pregnant, but she doesn't have the right to choose her baby's born.
Baby's born in the sense, If she has a girl in her womb, maybe she could be aborted. So, she doesn't have the right do save her baby's life.
During pregnancy she has to work with child in her womb. Because she doesn't have any option, otherwise who will do her work.
Work- as a house wife, kitchen work, business- as a tailor, as a parlor woman, as a teacher, company work and some other works.
A woman is multitalented at the same time.
She nurtures her child in a very carefully manner, without any expect. Mother has an unconditional relationship with her child, she loves without any condition. She never loves for greedy, she loves for happiness of her child.
Woman as a daughter
In their childhood, they don't have the right to live their life by their own way.
Boys can go out of home to wander anywhere with their friends but the girls can't. Girls have the restrictions to do something but boys are free to do.
When they start her educational life, they join school, but many of them leave their school, because of this society, only some of them go for next level of study. Rest of them leave their college.
Girls are too much intelligent to be educate. But in the real sense, they don't have any right by this society to do so.
Woman as a wife
First of all, woman doesn't have the right to do marry with her choice. She gets marry, but she doesn't know, how is her in-laws family? How her in-laws will react with her? She doesn't know anything. Firstly she quits her study, due to her in-laws, mostly in India. She wants to be educate, but she couldn't do due to her in-laws family. Even she doesn't know, will her in-laws allow her to study or not? She leaves her family for ever. Now she will live her all life in the other family. Whether the family is good for her or not, Here, she is controlled by her husband. After her marry, she has nothing of her name.
Her finger, but the ring of her husband's name
Her hand, but the bangles of her husband's name.
Her head, but the sindur of her husband's name
Her neck, but the mangalsutra of her husband's name
Means, husband rules over her body with his name, she has nothing of her.
Mostly in rural India, she faced a lot of difficulties, like ghunghat, to speak less than a man, never speak in front of any other man, and others.
Even India has a custom that her husband is the lord, he can do everything with her, even he can beat her, sometimes she suffers as a maid. It seems that the woman has been built for the man's love. Most of the women are even sexually assaulted by their husband like a sexual worker.
In rural India, it seems that Aurat means bondage, sex, maid, a commodity of man, a child delivery machine.
Physical, sexual and psychological violence occurring in the family, including battering, dowry related violence, marital rape, female genital mutilation. We react to them like this, this is our thought about them.
Old traditions for a woman, that were really intolerable.
Practice of Sati
It is a blot on the society. How many families were destroyed under this practice. In the practice of Sati, after the death of the husband, the wife was also put on the pyre. It was happened in the history, but now it is in practice by force.
Practice of purdah/Ghunghat
Purdah is an Islamic word (Persian language). In India, it is influenced by Mughal Empire in India. The women of 'Ramayana' and 'Mahabharata' did not use purdah at any place. There was not any custom like Purdah system in ancient India.
This practice of purdah affects to the women, when they go to medical for treat, there they are unable to get well treatment because of this purdah custom. And even they face many of the problems like this.
Practice of Dowry
Dowry is a payment, paid by the bride's family to the groom's family at the time of marriage. Due to this practice of Dowry women are treated as property.
When brides unable to pay the high price to marry, they are punished by violence by their husband or in-laws family. Also this violence turns into a big accident like battering by in-laws family including husband, sexual harassment, marital rape and even death.
And many more customs for women, that had to face them. That are intolerable by any gender.
We have read all about a woman in the upper paragraphs, which shows that the real warrior in this world is woman, in the form of mother, daughter, life partner, life partner as a wife.
India worships A woman as a spiritual Power. Indian ancient history teaches us to give respect to the Women.
Let's come back with our old culture, that respects the women.
Srishti requests,
It's an honorably request to all the readers, do respect of all women, whether she is your mother daughter and wife or anything else. Give them respect. Literally, they are very beautiful by nature
Let's come back with our old culture, that respects the women.
"Thank You!"
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A well decorated poem about ''the Aurat''
ज़िंदगी के अंतिम लम्हों में एक पुरुष अपने साथ व्यतीत हुए नारी के कुछ पलों का इस तरीके से उल्लेख करता है।
कि,
तू है नारी, तू ही है हमसफर,
तुमने ही किया था शुरू ये सफर।
तू मंजर है यूँ इस कदर,
आज तेरी देनी दुनिया को खबर।।
प्रथम पल-
तूने ही बनाया है ये जहां,
तुमसे ही है छीना ये आसमां।
तुमने जो किया वो कर ना सकें,
फिर तुम लगते हो क्यूँ इतने थके।।
तुमने ही सजाया है ये जहां,
तुम हो कहाँ हे जानेजां।
तुमने जहां में जब जन्म लिया,
सबके मन को यूँ उदास किया।।
द्वितीय पल-
कि तू हुई जग में क्यूँ इस कदर,
तेरे होने से होगी सबको ये फिकर।
कि कौ चलायेगा वंश मेरा अब से,
क्योंकि तू होती जुदा सब के घर से।।
तेरे होने की ना हो जब इच्छा हमें,
तू हो जाए तो होती यूँ फिक्र हमें।
कि तेरा पालन करना है कैसे हमें,
तेरी रक्षा करनी है समय- समय।।
बेटी बन तूने जो जन्म लिया,
सबके दर को यूँ धन्य किया।
धन्य-धन्य करते तेरे होने को,
दिन दूर हुए अब रोने को।।
तृतीय पल-
तू चली करने अब जुदा हमको,
हमने भी दिया ये वचन तुमको।
तेरा साथ कभी ना छोड़ेंगे,
नया रिश्ता अब तुमसे हम जोड़ेंगे।।
पल पल तेरी याद सताती है,
जब तेरी माँ तेरी बात बताती है।
तेरी आती याद हमें अब भी,
तुम भूल न जाना हमको कभी।।
ससुराल में,
चतुर्थ पल
तुम आती हो जब देती सुकून,
रग रग दौड़े मेरा ये खून।
सब चिंता मुक्त अब होने लगी,
तू आती है जब मेरे पास कभी।।
तेरा यूँ ईस ने रूप बनाया है,
मेरे मन को जो खूब ही भाया है।
तेरे रूप ने ऐसा ये जादू किया,
तेरी रूह से हमको है जोड़ दिया।।
धन्य हुए सब नर जन तुम्हे पाकर,
कृपा की जो तुमने यहाँ आकर।
तेरे आने का नहीं जाने का है डर,
जब जाये तो देना मुझे एक ख़बर।।
पंचम पल व अंतिम पल-
मैं भी तब दूँगा तुमको ये सबर,
कि तू आयी थी मिलने यूँ इस कदर।
कि तू है नारी, तू ही है हमसफर,
तुमने ही किया था शुरू ये सफ़र।।
Jai Hind, Take Care.
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